Framework CI should run for changes in /lib and tests

[LourensVeen]

Describe the bug
The amuse-framework CI workflow currently only runs for changes in src/amuse, but the libraries are also part of the framework, and changes to the framework and ext tests should also trigger it.

To Reproduce
Make a PR that modifies something in /lib

Expected behavior
The amuse-framework test to run.

Logs
See e.g. #1262

Environment (please complete the following information):

• GitHub Actions

[LourensVeen]

While we're at it, the all-up compat tests now run for each pull request, while they really don't need to be run if we just change something in a code. They should be limited to running once a week to check for issues caused by dependency updates, and if the build system is modified, i.e. /setup and /support